When Values Collide

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Often we must simply be patient and allow the Holy Spirit to lead people to change. However, sometimes people do require guidance from other Christians. One excellent opportunity arises when they choose to join the local church. Most churches have some sort of instruction and examination procedure. Such a time allows the pastor to ask about certain areas of their lives that may need correction.
If people continue in their sin after a period of time, they fall into the "inside the church" category and may need to be spoken to accordingly. However, we must remember to be patient with new believers. God knows better than we how much they can change at once. If they are open to his Spirit he will instruct them. We should pray for their openness and obedience.
The value of the value. Finally, sometimes when our values collide, we must consider what the value is. The Bible makes clear statements on immorality. However, some values remain less crucial, such as personal habits of dress or entertainment. Television may be shunned by some and lauded by others. Stylish clothes may be required by some peoples' professions and avoided by others due to a desire for simplicity.
Some values are personal and not clearly dictated by Scripture. These matters may be discussed openly yet should not cause friction between persons, in or out of the church.
When our values collide with another person's, we must consider the weight of the conflict. If the matter is crucial, we need to remember the other person's spiritual state. We must continue to love the other person despite all other factors. If we would pray for them instead of complaining, we might find a resolution, if only within ourselves.
Kathy Callahan-Howell

 

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